BALANCING POLARITY IN RELATIONSHIPS – Masculine vs Feminine Energy | LoveExpanded 137

BALANCING POLARITY IN RELATIONSHIPS – Masculine vs Feminine Energy | LoveExpanded 137

Let’s get first things straight – masculine and feminine energy have nothing to do with gender!! But it has everything to do with balancing polarity in relationships.

Cultivating both of these energies within you, gaining maturity in both energies, allows you to play with a full toolset of both the creative (feminine) and the implementation (masculine) enriches and builds a successful life.

It allows you to draw on the strengths of both, being firm but flexible, being logical and confident, but open and reciptice to new ideas. The play between these two forces in your life is constant from the moment you wake up to the time you go to sleep again. Being aware of how each influences you allows power to gain influence over yourself and understanding of your partner. You become the badass you know you are. And your relationship dynamics start to shift.

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If you desire to learn more about the masculine and feminine energies within you I have worked extensively the last 10 years both personally and with clients to understand and utilize/integrate this concept into their lives, I cannot begin to explain the difference even the awareness of this makes, let alone the implementation. 

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Are you afraid of your sexuality? Is this holding you back in your relationships and other areas of life?

Sex. Sexuality. Your sexual power. What do these words make you feel? Uncomfortable? Shame? Excitement?

Sex, sexuality, and all things related have such a shroud over them, even in this day and age where people are more open than ever.

It’s the notion that, if you are a good upstanding woman, honest clean and wholesome, then you cannot be overly sexual, these two things just don’t go together. Somehow in the back recesses of the psyche the one negates the other.

But is this really true? Can you be a good wholesome woman and still love sex and be sexual?

Being okay with being sexual is one thing.

The next question is, are you using this energy in your life to propel you forward or are you shy and ashamed about it? And you do you even know what I mean by this?

Even if you are really liberal, and sexual, is this just surface?

  • Are you comfortable with your sexuality and are you using this powerful force and energy to enrich your relationships and to propagate your purpose and essence in this world?
  • Are you accessing this authentic power?
  • Are you letting this most powerful force fuel and enrich you, and your dreams and ambitions?
  • Do you know how?

Why you are not, is less important than why you really want to be doing this and how to do this… 

As someone who was very sexual, but also sexually repressed in many ways due to upbringing, events, and other things, I never knew the importance of this powerful force.

I knew I wanted to feel more comfortable with my sexuality, and I also knew I wanted to experience the body bliss I was missing out on.

Only as I healed and opened did I realized the power sexual energy held, and only then did I learn to channel and access this force not only in the bedroom, but in everyday life too.

Now this is not only about sex. (Although your intimate life is guaranteed to improve and the pleasure you experience in your body to go off the charts.)  This is about opening to the energy that fuels sex.

This is about opening to YOU, ALL of you, this is about opening to the very essence that makes you Woman.

This sexual energy is what brought you into this world, it’s what creates all human life. This energy is sacred, it is connecting, it is intimate and mostly, it is raw power. No wonder the world has tried to control it and you by casting shadows and shame.

What would happen if you opened to your sexuality? What would happen if you could access this powerful energy and use it not only to enrich your partnership, but other areas of your life too?

I can give you a glimpse…

First, you are going to feel good, damn good! Comfortable in your body and skin, more supple, open and flowing with life, even when its hard.

You will have more passion for life, more energy for your projects, more creative ideas and energy flow around all your creative endeavors.

Your sex drive will return or improve. Sex is actually going to feel good, really good.

You might experience a new zest for life. New ideas, new surge of new passion for projects old and new.

Expect all your relationships to work a lot smoother. Things won’t get to you like they used to.

If you are single you are guaranteed to attract a different sort of man, one who respects you, cherishes and adores your feminine ways, and encourages you to be in this energy more and more. This man will not try to tame you, but instead revere your spunk and authentic expression.

More energy, that burned out feeling will be replaced with ease and flow.

Your confidence will sky rocket, your presence improve. You will be the woman who everyone notices when you walk into a room, and you are going to feel oh so comfortable being Her. 

Events, situations and people will open to you.

You will have more connection to your partner, more intimacy, and more desire to connect and communicate.

Do you want these things? Or does this scare you?

Are you afraid that by opening to the energy of sex you will be seen as ‘too’ sexual. Are you afraid to be slutty, and all the other negative things associate with woman who are more sexually liberated?

You do not have to be. You can open to this energy, you can be comfortable with your sexuality, and still be a classy, contained woman who knows how to direct this energy, instead of having the energy direct her.

This is not about control, its about being grounded in yourself and authentically expressing who you are.

Would you like to do this? Would you like the benefit of both worlds? Would you like to have it all?

So, how do you open to this sexy, sensual, creative, yet powerful force?

Firstly, know this is powerful stuff. This is where pure, raw, creation takes place. Respect it.

You might have fear around this, most people do. Be aware of the fear, as well as, any blocks, negative beliefs, or negative feelings, that come up for you. Know where you are.

Secondly, create safety by allowing yourself compassion for where you are. Allow yourself to start fresh and create new ideas and beliefs around this sacred energy.

Third, release the negative. Release the shame and any other emotions or things standing between you, your pleasure and your raw, authentic, power.

Fourth, give yourself permission to open, allow, and let this energy permeate through you and heal and empower you. You have to allow it in. You have to be okay with being sexual, letting this energy ripple through your body. You have to be okay with feeling good, feeling mass amounts of pleasure, and really sinking into your body, allowing this force to ripple through you. Give yourself permission to be seen, really seen, for the divine feminine being you are. No more hiding behind baggy clothing, messy hair, shyness, or fear of full expression.

It’s time to come out of hiding and BE YOU. All the way. The more you allow YOU out of the bag, the more freely you can tap into your essence as a woman, and you already know in your bones how to access this power, you just have to give yourself permission and allow it. It will come.

If you are afraid, notice it and move through it, allow yourself to feel it, and proceed anyway. Bold words I know, but this actually works.

Can you do this? Do you want to do this? 

I can tell you it’s worth it.

If you know something is missing from your life. If you know it’s time for you to come out and step into that purpose and mission you feel brewing deep within you, then this is the next step for you.

I believe in you.

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ps… I would love to hear from you. Please leave a comment. How has your idea about your sexuality impacted your life? Either for the good or bad.


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I feel so very, very, blessed right now. I have always felt blessed, but today my heart and soul is in a state of deep profound gratitude, joy and blessing. Radiating ever so subtly the deep joy I feel.
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Entrusting Feminine

The feminine heart is the seeker of love.

The divine feminine is the entrusting guardian of love, as you give it, and penetrate her heart so deeply with your masculine gifts, then only is she able to surrender completely into your love, opening like a flower and blessing you with her true essence and adoring overflowing love.


She flows like the ocean, moves like the wind. Her moods and actions reflect this as she is in, one moment, and out another. Her moods can change in a instant, and so can what she wants. She is open and free, she moves with grace and radiance as she fills her world with wonder. Her supple body and supple ways inspire you and entice you.


The divine feminine essence is strong and powerful, she knows what she wants and is not afraid to take it, yet does so in an elegant dance of play and energy. The goddess knows the balance between her strength and her allowing. She knows her feelings and her heart, and is guided by them, being true to her deepest yearnings and desires.


Women love, ‘love’. She loves to talk about it, read about it, watch it manifest in movies and TV shows. Her relationships are key and she focus’ on them constantly always seeking to refine and enrich them.

This is woman.

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Your Masculine Gift

Men, every woman dreams of her man opening her like the first spring rose.

She may be so closed she doesn’t realize this, or seem too busy to care.

But, she is lying to you and herself. When you penetrate her so deeply with your love and presence, just a look can melt away her fears, apprehension and soften her body.

This is the true art of masculine love. You hold the keys to the unlocking!!


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