When it comes down to it, being more connected and having someone in your life you know you can count on, not only creates more happiness now in your life, but also predicts how healthy you will be in old age.
Here are some highlights from this study that tracks 724 men over 75 years. 60 of these men are still alive, most in their nineties, with one of the participants being a US president.
Good relationships make us happier and healthier.
Important messages and 3 Big lessons from this study. Some of the highlights.
- Social connections are really good for us, and loneliness kills. 7:50
- Loneliness is toxic. 7:58 (1 in 5 people are lonely at any given time.)
- It’s the quality of your close relationships that make all the difference. 8:40
- Conflict is really bad for our health. High conflict marriages without much affection is worst for us than getting divorced. 8:51
- Living in loving relationship is protective. 9:02
- How satisfies you are in your relationships predicts how long you will live and how healthy you will be at old age. 9:09
- Good close relationships buffer us from physical pain. 9:45
- Being in a good secure relationship in your 80’s, where you really feel like you can count on the other person in times of need, those people’s memories are better longer. 10:25
Conclusion, foster and put time into your relationships now for more well being in all areas of life.
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